OPEN YOUR EYES

I don't know why is it so hard for people to be wary of each other's feelings yet very easy to make judgments. I'm not gonna lie, I am (very much) guilty of being judgmental. It's because I have went through so much in my life that I have learned not to trust people easily. Although I have strongly developed this behavior, I am not the kind of person who draw conclusions easily. I always try to give a person the benefit of doubt because that is what's fair and all of us deserve it. All suspects are considered innocent until proven guilty.

I want to believe that there are solid reasons behind everything that we do. We are molded to make choices based on the different circumstances we face in our life. Each of us make decisions, both good and bad. But it doesn't mean that once we've made a bad move that we already are bad persons. And being mean towards a certain person just because he/she did something "wrong" definitely will not make one one bit of a better person than the other.

We are all in constant battle with good and evil. Always caught between right and wrong. But what we don't realize is that we are just wasting ourselves in this senseless battle. This one is something that can never be won for we all have our own definitions of good and bad. Often times we do something that we thought is right (in our own sense and definition) but can turn out to be totally wrong for others.

What we all should learn is how to dissociate the actions a person took in his/her life with their personal being. Try to look beyond the facade for all we don't know that person might be going through hell and I bet you're  not gonna like it if you'll be in that person's shoes. So before you make judgments think about this first:

Actioni contrariam semper et æqualem esse reactionem.